A child's academic's success in school is affected by many factors. But one thing is certain.
The more teachers and parents choose to work together- and the more parents are involved in the work of their child's education- the better young people do in school. Like anything else, effective parenting is not an easy task.
Here are seven simple but vital suggestions that can help you enhance the possibilities of your child' success.
First, we strongly recommend that parents establish a daily routine for their child. Parents can also assign responsibility for household chores, be firm about the times to get up and go to bed, and set aside times for the family to be together. Parents need to know that having an established routine helps manage time, set priorities, and get their work done.
Second, we recommend that parents monitor out-of school activities. They can meet this recommendation in various ways, including setting school-night rules and limits on TV watching. They can check on children when they are not at home- and arrange for after-school activities and supervised care. Parents need to know that when children are unsupervised their schoolwork almost always suffers. We can also remind parents that it's not just in the evening hours that young people get into trouble. Many studies point out the fact it's between the time students get out of school and when parents get home from work that young people engage in wrong activities.
Third, we can urge parents to attend school events involving their child- and to support and model the value of the school, learning, self-discipline, and hard work. This can be achieved by communicating with their children through conversation and questioning. Parents can also give testimony to the fact that achievement comes from consistently working hard.
Fourth, Parents can help their children perform well in school by expressing high but realistic expectations for achievement. Parents can do this by setting goals that are age appropriate for their child's age and maturity. Parents can recognize and encourage special talents. When children overhear their parents telling their friends and family members about their child's successes, they are more likely to keep their standards high.
Fifth, by maintaining a warm, caring and supportive home, parents can encourage their child's development and school progress. This action includes showing interest in a child's education by supporting homework and projects - and often discussing the advantages of participating in opportunities offered by the school. Parents should stay in touch with teachers and school staff- and always seek answers to their questions and concerns.
Sixth, Parents should be encouraged to read and discuss interesting topics and issues with the family. Many family activities help meet this need: Reading, listening to children read, and talking about what they read and studied in class. Families can also discuss the day at the dinner table, and share hopes and dreams as well as problems.
Seventh, Parents can use family, school, and community resources to strengthen their children's performance. They can enroll their children in sports programs and music lessons. They can also introduce children to new activities, including community resources available to young children.
We hope that these recommendations were helpful to you and we would like to thank you in giving us the opportunity to work with your children.
Your Griffin Counselors,
Delawna Brown- Davis
Cheryl Williams